Gospel of Jesus Christ according to Saint Matthew

At that time, Jesus said to his disciples, «What do you think? If a man owns a hundred sheep and one of them is lost, will he not leave the ninety-nine on the mountain and go to look for the lost sheep? And if he finds it, truly I tell you, he is happier about that one sheep than about the ninety-nine that did not perish. In the same way, your Father in heaven is not willing that any of these little ones should perish.»

Finding the lost sheep: when God goes in search of what truly matters

Discover how the parable of the patient shepherd reveals God's unconditional love and transforms our view of those who stray from the path..

Matthew 18:12-14 immerses us in one of the most tender images of the Gospel: that of the shepherd who leaves his flock to find a single lost sheep. This parable encapsulates the entire spiritual revolution of Christ. Far from a cold accounting that would favor the many, Jesus reveals the face of a God who infinitely values each person. This text, which we often read during Advent, invites us to view human error not as an unforgivable fault, but as an opportunity for mercy divine unfolding. Together, we will explore why this unique sheep makes God's heart beat faster, how this logic overturns our usual priorities, and how we can embody this care in our daily relationships. Prepare to see faith differently: no longer as a club of perfectionists, but as an adventure of searching and rediscovering.

The parable of the shepherd who seeks : We will first place this story in its liturgical and biblical context, showing how Matthew uses it to talk about the Christian community. An analysis of divine logic We will then decipher the scandal of love that this pastoral choice represents, aberrant according to human calculations. Areas for reflection We will develop three theological directions (the infinite value of the person, joy (of the rediscovered, community responsibility) before exploring the concrete applications in our lives. Rooted in tradition We will link this parable to the insights of the Church Fathers and to contemporary spirituality, then we will offer a prayerful meditation and answers to the challenges that this text raises today.

The Shepherd and the Mountain: Placing the Parable in its Context

This short, three-verse parable occupies a strategic place in the Gospel of Matthew. It appears in chapter 18, entirely devoted to community life and fraternal correction. Just before, Jesus has spoken of the "little ones" who must not be caused to stumble (Mt 18:6-10), and just after, he will give the rules for correcting a brother who has sinned (Mt 18:15-20). Our text thus forms a crucial turning point: it explains Why We must do everything we can to avoid losing anyone from the community.

The pastoral image Jesus uses is far from abstract for his listeners. In first-century Judea, sheep farming structured the economy and the collective imagination. Everyone knew that a shepherd jealously guarded his flock, counting it morning and evening, knowing each animal. The mountain mentioned in the text refers to the arid plateaus where sheep grazed, dangerous terrain with its ravines and predators. Losing a sheep meant risking injury, death from thirst, or ending up in the jaws of a wolf. The shepherd who went in search of it therefore took a calculated, but real, risk.

Matthew here takes up a tradition already present in Luke (Luke 15, (4-7), but with an important nuance. In Luke, the parable serves to justify welcoming sinners and tax collectors in the face of the Pharisees' murmuring: it is a defense of Jesus' mission to the excluded. In Matthew, it is addressed to the disciples themselves and concerns the internal life of the nascent Church. The message becomes clearer: in your assemblies, do not neglect any member, even the least, even the one who drifts away. This editorial adaptation shows that the early communities read into this image an essential pastoral instruction.

The allusion to the "little ones" (in Greek mikroi) runs through the entire chapter 18 like a central thread. Who are they? The children, certainly, whom Jesus has just placed at the center as a model for welcoming the Kingdom (Mt 18:1-5). But also those weak in faith, the fragile disciples, those who stumble, those whose confidence wavers. In the early Church, this could refer to new converts, the poor Without religious instruction, they are social outcasts. Jesus insists: in the eyes of the Father, they are worth as much as everyone else combined. This statement overturns the usual hierarchy of values. It heralds a theology where the individual person counts infinitely, where God cares for the least as much as the first.

The liturgical context, that of Advent The fact that this text is often heard further enriches the reading. The accompanying Alleluia antiphon ("The day of the Lord is near; behold, he comes to save us") places us in a state of joyful anticipation. The shepherd who seeks prefigures Christ who comes to save lost humanity. Advent This reminds us that God does not remain far from his creation: he descends into the barren mountain of our history to bring us back to him. This dynamic of "coming" imbues the entire parable with an eschatological tone. We await the One who is already seeking us.

The logic turned on its head: analyzing the scandal of mercy

At first glance, the shepherd's behavior seems unreasonable. Leaving 99 sheep unattended to search for just one? Any flock manager would consider this calculation absurd. The risk of the 99 scattering or being attacked far outweighs the benefit of finding the hundredth. Yet, Jesus presents this decision as self-evident: "Won't he leave the 99...?" The rhetorical phrasing suggests that everyone should answer "yes, of course." This is where the scandal lies: Jesus invites us to adopt a rationality that is not that of utilitarian calculation.

This inverted logic reveals something fundamental about God's identity. He does not operate according to the principle of the majority. His accounting is not based on productivity. For him, a person's worth is not measured by their contribution to the group or their ability to stay on the straight and narrow. Each sheep possesses an absolute, inalienable dignity that justifies every effort. This theological truth underpins all of Christian ethics: the human person has infinite value, regardless of their merits or failings.

The text also highlights joy The shepherd's disproportionate joy when he finds the lost sheep is striking. "He rejoices for her more than for the 99 who did not go astray." This statement offends our sense of justice. Don't the 99 faithful deserve more recognition? Why this celebration for the one who caused so much worry? The answer lies in the very nature of divine love. God does not rejoice of the straying – that would be absurd – but of Return, life regained, relationship restored. It is the difference between death and life that provokes this explosion of joy. The one who was lost is found, the one who risked death is saved: how can one not exult?

This divine joy also teaches us something about how we live out our faith in community. Too often, our churches operate in an accusatory or guilt-inducing way toward those who drift away. They are judged, criticized, and mentally excluded. Jesus shows us the opposite path: the authentic Christian community actively seeks out those who are lost, invests energy in finding them, and celebrates their return without recriminations or reproaches. The parable thus describes both the heart of God and the pastoral approach of the Church.

Finally, the conclusion of the passage deserves attention: «So your Father in heaven does not want one of these little ones to perish.» The verb «want» (thelein (in Greek) expresses a deliberate will, a profound desire. God does not resign himself to losing anyone. He does not tolerate loss as acceptable collateral damage. His saving will is universal and extends to everyone, especially the most vulnerable. This statement anticipates what Paul will later develop: God "wants all people to be saved" (1 Tim 2:4). The parable of the shepherd narratively embodies this theological principle. It makes it concrete, touching, almost tangible.

The infinite value of each person: first theological axis

The first major lesson of this parable concerns Christian anthropology, that is, the vision of humankind. In the shepherd's logic, a sheep is not worth 1/100th of the flock. It is worth as much as the other 99 combined, because its loss represents an unacceptable breach in the wholeness willed by God. This perspective radically alters our view of others. No one is interchangeable, no one is a mere number, no one can be sacrificed in the name of a greater collective good.

This vision is rooted in the conviction that every human being bears the image of God (Gn 1, (p. 27). The image of God confers a dignity that depends on no performance, no success, no conformity. The child who goes astray remains a bearer of this divine imprint. He does not lose it by getting lost. On the contrary, it is precisely because he retains this ontological dignity that God sets out to find him. If man were merely an animal among others, utilitarian calculation would prevail: it is better to save the majority. But because he is created in the image of God, each one counts infinitely.

This perspective has immense ethical consequences. It establishes the absolute respect for all human life, from beginning to end. It forbids treating anyone as a means to an end, however noble. It demands that we search for those who fall, that we concern ourselves with the fate of those who disappear, that we invest time and energy in those whom society considers lost. Think of the homeless, of migrants, to prisoners, to the mentally ill: the parable commands us to see them with the eyes of the shepherd, not with those of the efficient manager.

In our parish communities, this theological perspective challenges our practices. When someone stops coming to Mass, what do we do? Do we shrug it off and say, "Too bad for them"? Or do we go looking for them, not to make them feel guilty, but to show them that we miss them, that they matter, that their place remains empty? The parable suggests that the Church's mission is not limited to the faithful who are present, but extends to all those who have drifted away. It calls for a proactive pastoral approach, one that reaches out rather than waiting for people to come.

The infinite value of the individual also puts our usual criteria for community success into perspective. We often measure the vitality of a parish by the number of participants at Mass or in activities. Jesus offers us another standard: are we able to notice the absence of even one person? Do we care about the one who is missing? A community with 500 members that never worries about those who are absent misses the point. A small gathering of 20 people actively seeking the 21st person better embodies the spirit of the Gospel. The quality of relationships takes precedence over the quantity of attendance.

Finally, this anthropology speaks to us of our own worth in God's eyes. How often do we feel insignificant, lost in the crowd, convinced that God has better things to do than concern himself with us? The parable answers: no, you matter as much as everyone else. When you stray, the Father immediately sets out to find you. You are never a negligible case, never a file to be filed away, never acceptable collateral damage. This certainty of being sought, awaited, desired by God changes everything. It provides a solid foundation for self-esteem, not based on our achievements but on the unconditional love of the Creator.

The joy of being reunited

The second lesson of the parable concerns the nature of joy divine. Jesus affirms that the shepherd "rejoices for her more than for the 99 who did not go astray." This assertion may seem unfair, but it reveals something essential: God does not rejoice in our static perfection, but in our conversion, our return, our rediscovery of him. Joy It is born from the movement of death towards life, of loss towards reunion, of despair towards hope.

Think about your own experiences. Do you rejoice more in your health when you've never lost it, or after a serious illness from which you're recovering? Do you appreciate the presence of a loved one more when they're still there, or after a long separation? This contrast explains joy The shepherd's disproportionate grief. He experienced the anguish of loss, the uncertainty of the search, the fear of never finding the sheep. When he finally sees her, alive, the reunion explodes in pure joy. This joy is not a disregard for the 99 faithful, but the intense gratitude for a danger averted, a life saved.

Christian tradition has always reflected on this "joy of heaven" at the conversion of a sinner. Luke states it explicitly: "There will be joy in heaven for one sinner who repents, more than for 99 righteous people who do not need to repent» (Luke 15, 7). This heavenly joy has concrete implications for our spiritual life. First, it means that it is never too late to return. No matter how far we have traveled from God, no matter how many mistakes we have made: returning always brings a celebration. No fault can undo joy A divine reunion.

Furthermore, this perspective changes our view of conversion. We often imagine it as a painful effort, a difficult renunciation, a series of sacrifices. The parable shows us its other side: joy. Conversion is finding the Father who sought us, returning home after a long wandering, discovering that we are awaited, hoped for, and celebrated. This joy of reunion should color every act of reconciliation, every sacrament of penance, every moment of returning to God. We do not come to be rebuked, but to allow ourselves to be found by the One who has searched for us with such anguish.

In community life, this principle encourages us to cultivate a festive spirit toward those returning after a period of absence. Too often, our welcomes remain lukewarm, suspicious: "Look, he's back, where have he been?" Instead, the parable calls us to openly express our joy. Someone returns after years of absence? Let us celebrate, not indiscreetly, but with genuine warmth that conveys: "We missed you, we are happy to see you again." This shared joy heals the wounds of separation and facilitates reintegration.

Joy The rediscovered also speaks to our own experience of ongoing conversion. The Christian life is not a long, calm river where we never stray. We regularly lose our way, take wrong turns, and wander off the path. Each time we recognize this straying and return to God, it is a new opportunity for divine joy. The sacrament of reconciliation thus becomes less an admission of failure than an opportunity to gladden heaven. Every sincere confession brings about a celebration among the angels. This vision transforms our relationship to our own weaknesses: they are no longer insurmountable shames, but opportunities for God's love to manifest itself anew.

Finally, this divine joy encourages us to persevere in faith despite difficulties. We know that even if we stray, God is looking for us. Even if we get lost, he goes in search of us. Even if we drift away, he awaits us with joy. This certainty gives us unwavering confidence. We can face our weaknesses without despair, acknowledge our mistakes without collapsing, because we know that each return brings a joy greater than all our unfaithfulness combined.

Community responsibility

The third lesson, more subtle but crucial, concerns our collective responsibility in searching for the one who is lost. The parable addresses the disciples, asking them, «What do you think?» It not only describes God’s behavior but also offers a model for the Christian community. Like the shepherd, the Church and every baptized person must feel responsible for those who stray. No one can say, «That’s not my problem.»

This communal responsibility stems directly from the nature of the Church as the body of Christ. In a body, each member depends on the others. If one suffers, all suffer; if one is lost, all are affected. Paul develops this ecclesiology beautifully in 1 Corinthians 12 "The eye cannot say to the hand, 'I don't need you'" (1 Corinthians 12, 21). Applying this vision to our parable means that the loss of a single member weakens the entire body. The Church only reaches its fullness when all its members are present and alive.

In practical terms, this responsibility translates into pastoral vigilance. In a parish, who notices absences? Who cares to know why someone they used to see every Sunday no longer comes? Often, no one. We assume that everyone lives their faith as they see fit, and we respect their "choice" to distance themselves. The parable, on the contrary, suggests that we must reach out, make contact, and show that the absence has been noticed. Not in an intrusive or accusatory way, but with fraternal concern: "We miss you, are you alright?"«

This approach presupposes a genuine knowledge of the community members. In a large urban parish where people don't even greet each other, it's impossible to notice an absence. The parable thus argues for communities on a human scale, where faces are recognizable, first names are known, and life stories are followed. This doesn't mean remaining small at all costs, but rather structuring parish life so that no one can disappear without anyone noticing. Sharing groups, neighborhood teams, and Catholic Action movements: these are all frameworks where this mutual vigilance can be exercised.

Community responsibility also involves collective self-reflection when someone leaves. Rather than solely blaming the person who departs, the community should ask itself: Did we do something that hurt them? Did our way of living the faith exclude them? Did our rigidities stifle them? This self-criticism doesn't necessarily excuse the person who leaves, but it allows for the improvement of community life and prevents others from following the same path. A church that truly seeks the lost sheep also examines the reasons for its straying.

Furthermore, this responsibility does not fall solely on the "« pastors »"Officials, that is to say the priests, deacons or leaders" laypeople. It falls to every baptized person by virtue of the common priesthood. Each is a shepherd in their own way; each can notice an absence and act accordingly. A simple phone call, a kind message, an invitation for coffee: these are all simple gestures by which we embody the shepherd's care. The parable, in a way, democratizes pastoral concern by entrusting it to everyone.

Finally, this concern for those who have strayed must avoid two opposing pitfalls. The first would be indifference: doing nothing, letting things slide, considering it their own problem. The second would be harassment: insisting heavily, making them feel guilty, trying to force them back. Between the two lies a narrow path: that of discreet but constant presence. We show that we care, that we remain available, that we pray, but we respect the other person's freedom. We leave a door open without forcing anyone to cross it. This pastoral middle ground requires constant discernment and great sensitivity.

Living the parable daily

How can we translate these theological teachings into our daily lives? This section explores the practical applications of the parable of the shepherd in different spheres of existence.

In the family, This text invites us to adopt a loving vigilance toward everyone. When a child withdraws, a teenager drifts away from family values, or a spouse seems to distance themselves, the natural reaction oscillates between forced indifference («it will pass») and aggressive confrontation («what’s wrong with you?»). The parable suggests a third way: to patiently seek them out. This means creating spaces for non-judgmental dialogue, remaining available without being smothering, and demonstrating a constant presence that says, «I’m looking for you because you matter.» A parent who embodies this pastoral attitude facilitates the return of the prodigal child rather than pushing them away with reproaches.

In a professional context, The spirit of the shepherd can transform relationships. When a colleague becomes demotivated, isolated, or seems to lose their footing, the workplace often responds with exclusion: negative evaluation, marginalization, or dismissal. A Gospel-inspired approach would be to first seek the root cause of this disorientation. Personal problems? Interpersonal difficulties within the team? Lack of recognition? A Christian manager committed to this pastoral approach takes the time to listen, seeks appropriate solutions, and demonstrates continued faith in the individual. This attitude stems not from angelic naiveté, but from a conviction that each employee possesses a value that transcends their immediate productivity.

In parish life, As we have seen, the applications are obvious. But they require a revolution in mindsets. We must move from a Church that is a "gas station" (you come when you need to, otherwise you stay home) to a Church that is a "living body" where each member is known and matters. In concrete terms, this can translate into "parish cells" of 8 to 12 people who meet regularly. In such a setting, someone's absence is immediately noticeable and can elicit a fraternal response. We can also imagine a "ministry of accompaniment" where trained volunteers contact those who no longer attend, not to make them feel guilty, but to maintain the connection.

In our friendships, The parable also raises a question for us. How many friendships crumble through neglect or pride? A friend drifts away, we wait for them to make the first move, years pass, and the bond breaks. The shepherd teaches us the importance of taking the initiative to reach out. If someone drifts away from our circle of friends, why not go to them, invite them over, and let them know we miss them? This approach requires...’humility – it is recognizing that we need the other – but it saves so many precious relationships that would otherwise be lost in indifference.

Faced with our own failings, Finally, the parable frees us from paralyzing guilt. We all regularly lose our way: in doubt, lukewarmness, ethical compromises, and various dependencies. Rather than sinking into denial or despair, we can remember that God is already seeking us. This certainty gives us the courage to acknowledge our failings and return. The sacrament of reconciliation then becomes less a humiliating confession than an opportunity to allow ourselves to be found. This spiritual dynamic changes everything: we no longer convert out of fear of punishment, but out of trust in the One who awaits us with joy.

Echoes in the Christian tradition

The parable of the shepherd searching for his sheep has profoundly marked Christian tradition since its origins. The Church Fathers saw in it a central image of Christ's mission and the Church's ministry. Saint John Chrysostom, Patriarch of Constantinople in the 4th century, commented: "The shepherd does not say, 'Let her come of her own accord,' but he goes, he runs, he eagerly seeks her." This emphasis on divine initiative resonates throughout the centuries. God does not simply open his door and wait for our return; he goes out, he actively searches for us, he pursues us with his love.

Saint Augustine, in its Confessions, Augustine illustrates this truth through his own life story. Before his conversion, he lived in moral and intellectual confusion, pursuing fleeting pleasures and uncertain philosophies. In retrospect, he understands that during all those years of wandering, God was seeking him, preparing the circumstances of his conversion, and patiently awaiting him. «You were there, within me, and I was outside,» he writes. This Augustinian experience of the divine search permeates all of Western spirituality. We stray, but God dwells within us and constantly calls us back to our true home.

Christian iconography has frequently depicted the Good Shepherd carrying the sheep on his shoulders. This image, found as early as the Roman catacombs of the 3rd century, shows Christ as a tender and strong shepherd, capable of bearing our failings. This Christ-shepherd already foreshadows the carrying of the cross: he bears our sins, our weaknesses, our wanderings. The found sheep symbolizes all of humanity, which Christ leads back to the Father through his Paschal sacrifice. In this typological interpretation, our parable becomes a condensed foreshadowing of the entire mystery of Redemption.

Ignatian spirituality, developed by Saint Ignatius of Loyola In the 16th century, Ignatius echoed this parable in his method of discernment. He taught that God constantly seeks humanity, even when lost in error, and that He leaves traces of His presence (the "consolations") to help us find our way back to the right path. In the Ignatian tradition, the spiritual director plays the role of a shepherd: helping the discerning person recognize where God is seeking and calling them. This spiritual pedagogy pastorally translates the teaching of the parable: to accompany someone is to help them allow themselves to be found by God.

More recently, the Second Vatican Council renewed this pastoral vision by inviting the Church to "go out" to the contemporary world rather than waiting for the world to come to it. The constitution Gaudium et Spes It affirms that «the joys and the hopes, the griefs and the anxieties of the people of this age, especially of the poor and all who suffer, are also the joys and the hopes, the griefs and the anxieties of the followers of Christ» (GS 1). This universal solidarity directly extends the spirit of the shepherd who goes in search of the lost sheep. The Church cannot remain confined within its certainties; it must go to those who are lost in the existential peripheries of our time.

THE pope François, in his exhortation Evangelii Gaudium (2013), takes up this theme again with force. He calls for a «Church on the move,» a Church that «leaves its comfort zone» to reach out to those who have drifted away. He severely criticizes Christian communities that are complacent within their own circles, unconcerned with those who are absent: «I prefer a Church that is battered, wounded, and dirty for having taken to the roads, rather than a Church sick from closure and the comfort of clinging to its own securities.» This bold pastoral vision perfectly updates the parable: the shepherd who leaves the 99 to search for the lost girl takes risks, gets dirty in the mountains, but it is the price of loyalty to his mission.

Finally, the mystical tradition, of Teresa of Avila has John of the Cross, of François From Sales to Thérèse of Lisieux, the mystics bear witness to experiences where God seeks the soul even in the depths of its "darkness." Spiritual dryness, temptations, doubts: these are all barren terrains where the sheep strays. Yet, the mystics affirm that it is often in these dark nights that God works most intensely to find us. Thérèse of Lisieux, in her "little way," teaches that our very littleness attracts divine tenderness. The more lost we feel, the closer God draws to us. This mystical experience existentially validates the promise of the parable: no one is too lost for God not to seek them.

Meditate on the parable

Let us now enter into a prayerful meditation on the text in a few simple steps that you can personally follow.

First step: Find silence. Choose a quiet moment, make yourself comfortable, and take a few deep breaths. Ask the Holy Spirit to guide you in this reading. Open your Bible to Matthew 18:12-14 and read the passage slowly two or three times, letting the words resonate with you.

Second step: Identify the lost sheep within you. In what area of your life do you currently feel lost? What part of yourself has strayed from the fold? This could involve your faith (lukewarmness, doubts), your relationships (unresolved conflicts, isolation), your ethical choices (compromises that weigh you down), or your inner peace (anxiety, discouragement). Honestly acknowledge this straying before God, without judging or justifying yourself. Simply name it.

Step Three: Imagine God searching for you. Mentally visualize the shepherd roaming the mountain, calling your name. He is not accusing you; he is searching for you with concern and tenderness. Hear his voice calling to you in your wandering. Feel how much he misses you, how much he longs to find you again. Allow the emotion that accompanies this realization to rise within you: God is searching for you because you mean the world to him.

Fourth step: Accept being found. Returning requires consent. The sheep could still flee from the shepherd or hide in the bushes. But it allows itself to be seized and carried. Likewise, inwardly consent to let yourself be found by God. Abandon your defenses, your escapes, your justifications. Simply say: «Here I am, Lord, find me, carry me, bring me back.» This prayer of surrender opens the space for God to act.

Fifth step: Taste joy of the shepherd. The parable emphasizes joy God welcomes you back. Receive this divine joy as a free gift. God does not reproach you, he does not remind you of your mistakes, he does not impose humiliating penance: he rejoices. Let this divine joy penetrate your heart and dissolve your guilt or shame. You are awaited with joy, not anger.

Sixth step: Identify the lost sheep around you. Who in your circle seems lost right now? A relative, a friend, a colleague, a member of your community? Present them to God in prayer and ask for the grace to become a shepherd for them yourself. How can you concretely show that you care? Make a simple and achievable resolution (a call, a message, an invitation).

Seventh step: Giving thanks. End your meditation with a prayer of gratitude for this divine love He tirelessly seeks us. Thank God that He never abandons the search, that He never considers you too lost to be found. Entrust to Him all those who are currently lost and ask that they too may know joy to be found.

This meditation can be practiced regularly, especially during times when you feel distant from God or before receiving the sacrament of reconciliation. It can also become a communal practice during times of shared prayer, with each person meditating silently before briefly sharing what touched them.

Responding to contemporary objections

Several objections arise when this parable is proposed as a pastoral model today. It is important to address them honestly.

First objection: "This absolves those who distance themselves of responsibility."« If we overemphasize that God is searching for the lost sheep, don't we risk minimizing the personal responsibility of the one who goes astray? In reality, the parable doesn't negate human freedom or moral responsibility. It simply affirms that God, for his part, never gives up searching for us. Our freedom remains intact: we can refuse to be found, continue to flee, sink deeper into straying. But even this refusal doesn't stop the divine search. God respects our freedom while continuing to call us. The parable doesn't say, "Go astray without worry, God will fix everything," but rather, "When you stray, know that God will not abandon you.".

Second objection: "It's unfair to the 99 who remain loyal."« This remark often reflects a meritocratic mentality: the efforts of the faithful would go unrecognized. But Jesus doesn't compare their respective merits. He doesn't say that the lost sheep is worth more than the others, but her loss brings a special joy upon her return. Moreover, the 99 are not neglected: they remain safe and secure in the shepherd's love. The search for the lost one does not imply abandoning the others. Pastorally, this means that a Church that seeks those who are far away must not neglect those who are present. One does not exclude the other.

Third objection: "This doesn't work in an individualistic society."« It is sometimes argued that in our contemporary culture, marked by individualism, people want to distance themselves from the Church and don't appreciate being "reinvigorated." It's true that all pastoral approaches must respect freedom and avoid aggressive proselytizing. But there is a delicate way to show care for someone without violating their freedom. A kind message ("We miss you, we're thinking of you"), a non-pressured invitation ("If you'd like, come see us"), a discreet but consistent presence: these gestures respect the person's autonomy while letting them know they haven't been forgotten. Often, what is perceived as ecclesiastical indiscretion stems less from the principle itself than from clumsy execution.

Fourth objection: "We can't always be chasing after people."« Indeed, a pastor or a community has limits of energy and time. One cannot devote 100% of one's resources to searching for those who are leaving, at the risk of exhausting those who remain. The parable does not deny this reality. It establishes a principle of universal care that must then be wisely put into practice. Concretely, this means that one can prioritize according to urgency (someone in acute crisis deserves immediate attention) and according to available resources, while always keeping this concern for those who have strayed as a guiding principle. This is a guiding ideal toward which we strive, not an unattainable quantitative standard.

Fifth objection: "Some people genuinely don't want the Church anymore."« That's true. Sometimes people leave the Christian faith permanently and build their lives differently, consciously and freely. In these cases, insisting heavily becomes counterproductive and disrespectful. Pastoral care must recognize its limits. A friendly relationship can be maintained even with someone who has left the Church, without trying at all costs to "reconvert" them. This relationship in itself testifies to...«Christian love and leaves the door open in case the person changes their mind. Sometimes, the best way to find the lost sheep is simply to be present without forcing anything.

Sixth objection: "The parable ignores the structural causes of departures."« This is a pertinent criticism. Many people leave the Church not through personal failings, but because the institution has hurt, excluded, or disappointed them. In these cases, "searching" for the lost sheep without questioning the structures that drove them out would be hypocritical. The parable, in fact, does not explicitly address this dimension. But it opens the door to it. A Church that truly seeks its lost members must necessarily examine its own responsibility in their departures. Authentic searching includes institutional conversion.

Prayer inspired by the parable

Lord Jesus, Good Shepherd of our souls,
You who know each of your sheep by name,
You who leave the safe flock to seek the lost one,
Teach us to see with your eyes those who go astray.

Let us never consider anyone as definitively lost,
May we never resign ourselves to the absence of a brother or sister,
Let us never count our communities without noticing who is missing.
Give us the courage to go in search of what is right, even when it is costly.

For those who today wander far from you,
In the ravines of doubt or the deserts of lukewarmness,
We beg you: go in search of them, Lord.
Call them tenderly, find them with joy, bring them back gently.

For ourselves, when we go astray,
When we lose ourselves on our own winding paths,
When we flee from your presence or hide in our shadows,
Come and get us, Lord, before we are too far away.

Teach us to be for others what you are for us:
Patient shepherds who spare no effort,
Tenacious researchers who never give up,
Witnesses to your joy when someone comes back to you.

May our communities reflect your shepherd's heart,
That they be places where no one gets lost in anonymity,
Where every absence is noticed, where every return is celebrated,
Where everyone understands that they matter infinitely to you.

For families torn apart, where some members have drifted apart,
For friendships broken by pride or negligence,
For communities emptied by indifference or injury,
Raise up shepherds after your own heart, Lord.

Help us to bear witness, through our lives more than through our words.,
May your Gospel not be a burden but a liberation,
That your house is not a prison but a party,
That you don't wait to judge, but to embrace.

Father who art in heaven, as you do not want one of your little ones to be lost,
Keep us all in your love,
Search for those who drift away,
Bring back those who wander,
And rejoice with us when a brother or sister returns to you.

Through Jesus Christ, the eternal Shepherd, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
For ever and ever. Amen.

Set off on your search with confidence

At the end of this journey, the parable of the shepherd and the lost sheep revealed to us a face of God that overturns our usual categories. We discovered a Shepherd who calculates differently, who infinitely values each person, who rejoices disproportionately in every return, and who never gives up searching for the one who is lost. This divine logic overturns our human caution and our managerial calculations. It calls us to a profound pastoral conversion: from spectators of community life, we must become active participants in the search and witnesses of joy.

This parable is not abstract. It unfolds concretely in our families, where we are invited to patiently seek out those who withdraw into themselves; in our parish communities, where we must notice every absence and act in fraternal solidarity; in our friendships, where the initiative for reconciliation rests with us; and in our own spiritual lives, where we can allow ourselves to be found by God at every moment. Jesus' teaching does not merely inspire us; it commits us to a consistent practice of love.

The echoes we have heard in the Christian tradition, from the Church Fathers to the pope François, These events attest to the enduring relevance of this message. Every era has heard the call to "go out" to seek those who are lost. Our time, marked by individualism, secularization, and the wounds inflicted by the Church itself, is particularly in need of rediscovering this fundamental dimension of the Gospel. A Church that does not seek is a Church that has forgotten the heart of its mission.

The contemporary challenges we have addressed show that this pastoral research requires wisdom, sensitivity, and humility. It is not a matter of imposing faith on those who no longer want it, but of showing that they still matter, that their absence has been noticed, that the door remains open. This stance presupposes a Church that trusts in God's action rather than being anxious about its statistics. The shepherd in the parable does not panic over the 99 who remain; he trusts that they are safe while he searches for the one who is lost. Similarly, a Church that goes to the peripheries does not betray its faithful; it fully demonstrates its evangelical nature.

The final invitation of this text is addressed to each of us personally. In what area of your life can you embody the shepherd's attitude? Who around you is currently lost and deserves your attention? And in what corners of your own heart do you need to allow God to find you? These questions are not rhetorical; they call for a concrete response, a firm commitment. The parable only works if we live it.

Let us remember, finally, that God rejoices more in our returns than in our perfections. This certainty liberates us from an anxious and meritocratic spirituality. We do not build our salvation through our religious achievements; we welcome a God who has already sought us, found us, and carried us on his shoulders. This anticipated grace transforms everything: our falls become opportunities to celebrate. mercy, Our wanderings lead us down paths to new encounters, our weaknesses to the places where God's love shines brightest. Let us therefore allow ourselves to be sought and found, again and again, by the Shepherd who never tires of searching for us.

To go further in the practice

• Identify three people Identify those in your circle who have drifted away from the Church or the faith, and pray for them every day for a week. Then, contact at least one of them with a kind message, without any proselytizing intent, simply to show that you are thinking of them.
• Join or create a sharing group There should be 8 to 12 people in your parish where each member is known and absences are noted. Commit to contacting anyone who is absent several times in a friendly manner.
• Reserve a monthly time slot To meditate on the parable of the shepherd in relation to your own spiritual life, ask yourself honestly: "In what area have I gone astray this month?" and let God find you again in the sacrament of reconciliation.
• Suggest this to your parish priest or parish council to set up a "ministry of support" where trained volunteers contact people who no longer come, with respect and tenderness, to maintain contact and show that they are expected.
• In your family, establish a practice : when a member is going through a difficult period or seems to be drifting away from family values, organize a special moment (meal, walk, trip) to concretely show them that they matter and that they are cared for, without judgment or reproaches.
• Read and share with other Christians the apostolic exhortation Evangelii Gaudium of pope François, particularly the chapters on "the Church going out", to deepen this pastoral vision of a community that goes out to seek rather than passively wait.
• Examine your own attitudes Do you tend to judge those who drift away from the Church? To criticize them? To condemn them? Ask the Holy Spirit to transform your perspective so that you see them not as traitors or weaklings, but as lost sheep whom God lovingly seeks.

References for further reading

• Biblical texts Ezekiel 34:11-16 (God himself is the shepherd who seeks his sheep); ; Luke 15, 4-7 (Lucan version of the parable); John 10:1-18 (the Good Shepherd who lays down his life for his sheep); Psalm 23 (« The Lord is my shepherd »).
• Magisterium : Second Vatican Council, Gaudium et Spes, n. 1; ; Pope François, Apostolic Exhortation Evangelii Gaudium (2013), particularly nos. 20-24 (the Church going out); ; Benedict XVI, Encyclical Deus Caritas Est (2005), first part on the love of God.
• Patristic and spiritual authors Saint John Chrysostom, Homilies on Matthew ; Saint Augustine, Confessions, Book VIII; Saint Gregory the Great, Pastoral Rule ; Saint Thérèse of Lisieux, Story of a soul, chapter on mercy divine.
• Contemporary Theological Studies Kenneth E. Bailey, The Poet and the Peasant: A Literary-Cultural Approach to parables Luc (Excelsis, 2017); Joachim Jeremias, THE parables of Jesus (Seuil, 1984); Henri Nouwen, The Return of the Prodigal Son (Cerf, 1995, meditation which also sheds light on the parable of the shepherd).
• Pastoral resources Alphonse Borras, Parish Communities: Canon Law and Pastoral Perspectives (Cerf, 1996); Christian de Chergé, Invincible hope (Bayard, 1997), particularly the texts on welcoming the other and patience pastoral.
• Catechesis and Liturgy Catechism of the Catholic Church, nos. 1443-1445 (the sacrament of reconciliation as reunion); Rite of Penance (especially the prefaces that evoke the return of the sinner); Sunday Lectionary, homiletic commentaries for the 2nd Sunday of Advent, year A.